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Is there a story unfolding in your community? Let Hivisasa know

If there is such a thing as a serious relationship, then there has to be its opposite: an unserious relationship. For many people, a serious relationship is all-encompassing: It's romantic, emotional and sexual. 

But when the relationship is purely physical, it's not really a relationship at all. But how do you know if the person you're dating is the right person for your serious relationship? These 3 questions will give you the answer.

He should be able to see where you are both going.He should be able to know what he really wants in the relationship and what he really wants to have with you.It's good to know where he stands and where he hopes to be with you eventually.There surely must be a course to why you should be in that relationship with him.

He should be able to let you know how much he cares about you.You will have to ask him that indirectly because obviously for you to get to the point where you are debating on whether to make it serious or not,he must care about you but you need to be sure that he really does.

Is he really serious and ready to make it serious?Don't count on what he says only but his actions should suggest that he is willing to get serious with you.You should know him well enough to see the things he does do show he is ready to get serious.