People fall in love too fast and get into relationships without thinking deeply about them. 

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It is sad how things suddenly turn ugly and no matter how much they try, the relationships just don't seem to work. There are signs that show that you aren't right for each other. 

1. You are both defensive

For a relationship to work, you should both be responsible for your mistakes and change from them. Being defensive means you don't accept your mistakes and never say sorry. You always feel you are right. 

2. You are not responsible for your relationship

A relationship works well when both partners contribute to its growth. If you both don't take your relationship seriously, it is likely to collapse. If both of you make zero efforts to make things work then you probably aren't good for each other. 

3. You cant hold important conversations

Whenever things arise in your relationship, you find it hard to sit down and talk about it. If "let's not talk about this" is what comes out every time a matter of concern arises, then you are definitely not good for each other. 

4. You can't imagine a future together

Two people who truly love each other will always see a future together as opposed to those who aren't right for each other. If you don't talk about a common future, you are wasting your time in the relationship. 

5. You don't turn to each other in times of crisis

When you are in a relationship with the right person, you will always turn to them in times of crisis even if they won't help. This, however, does not happen when you aren't right for each other.