Sex and affection is vital to a good marriage [Photo/storried.com]
Marriage is an institution that has its own rules and regulations. It’s not always easy to manage marriage because it entails many things. Many people have tried it but end up being divorced. Marriage rules help prevent conflicts and strengthen your bond when you have an agreement. An African couple has to be more specific when setting their new home for a better future.
Here are four simple rules African couples apply for successful marriages:
1. Choose how to handle the "third party"
A third party is always an enemy of any marriage. Family, friends or society in general can cause a severe breakdown of your bond. As a couple you need to agree that rules in your relationship should be based on your feelings. Seek advise from your partner anytime you feel insecure. Let her be your best advisor when psychologically disturbed.
2. Commit your marriage to God
A prayerful family is always a step ahead. Share with your partner about your religious background. Discuss with him/her about the church you want your children to attend. This is vital for keeping your marriage.
3. Agree on the end game
As a couple it’s always good to plan for your marriage. Create a conducive environment for a face to face chat with your partner and agree on certain things on your marriage. Remind her of those good things you promise each other at first time when you met. Create some rules together that will prevent heartbreak and confusion down the line.
4. Conclude on how much intimacy you both need and can give
Sex and affection is vital for good marriage. The level of intimacy can only be decided by you two people. As a couple you need to feel comfortable discussing everything from public displays of affection to how often you have sex. Always be honest and show out your desires. Finding common grounds and compromising about intimacy is just as important as every other aspect of your marriage