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It is common for ladies to beg their ex to take them back after a relationship has ended.

Its important to understand why it will never work even if he does take you back.

First, both of you have changed. You will change to live a scripted life and be careful in everything that you do in the fear of messing up. You will not be the real you. He will also pretend to love you when in fact he doesn’t and you will end up more hurt.

He will take advantage of you.Sad truth, believe it or not. He will love that he has power over you and will do some things that he shouldn’t because he knows you need him.

He might take you back out of pity and not love. Its hard to be with someone who has pity on you and does not love you for real. He will not give you the affection and attention you deserve. Always let things flow, never beg him to take you back.