Have you ever noticed that making friends to some other people is always a difficult task? Not because they like to, but it is in their blood. However, making new friends and making new connections is the order of the modern world. Therefore, if you are having this challenge you can always overcome it by:
Change the way you think
To some people, the idea of meeting new people is always scary. Personally, I know I am an introvert, I always have more conversations with myself than with any other person. However, it always feels good to talk to other people than talking to myself (meditation). Therefore, if this is your character too, start seeing the company of other people as very healthy and you will start letting new people in your life.
Stop being too judgmental
Imagine you are there and everyone you see is not your “type” or “class”. These are some of the things that are restraining your interaction with other people. You need to understand that no one is perfect, not even you and therefore, letting people in your life with time you will learn to understand them and the experiences will always be exhilarating.
Do not be this type of person who is always waiting for other people to come up with plans for the weekend or you are just there so that other people can call you up. Come up with something, start a conversation. This is a good way to show other people that you care about them and as a result, they will be interested in you.
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