Kenyan R&B star Otile Brown broke up with his socialite cum business lady lover Vera Sidika for the second time. This comes barely a month after getting back together.
They broke up because Otile Brown asked for Sh.500k from Vera Sidika to buy a car, which she didn’t have.
After analyzing the reasons for their breakup, here are crucial lessons Kenyans should learn:
1. Keep your relationship private
Keeping your relationships private will help you a lot. If Vera Sidika and Otile Brown could have kept their issues private, no one would have known that Otile asked for money, plus no one would have known that Vera puts on Otile’s boxers. Keeping your relationships private saves you from embarrassments.
2. A car is not a basic need
Otile didn’t have money to buy a car. He thought borrowing was good, when it was not given his situation was not an emergence. Only go for loans when it’s an emergency.
3. Always concentrate on your talent
Kenyans asked Otile Brown to concentrate on his talent and stop getting involved in unnecessary love dramas. He is capable of doing great things provided he concentrates on his talent. Anyone can thrive provided they concentrate on their talents and work on them well.
4. Never allow anyone to use you
Many people will come in the name of love when they only want to use you. Always be keen on who truly loves you and who just wants to use you. Don’t let anyone drain you financially in the name of love.
5. People feel offended when you always borrow them money
Whether it’s your boyfriend or girlfriend, people feel offended when you always borrow them money. Only borrow money when it’s an emergency and not for buying unnecessary things.