Elders say, starting a relationship is not an issue, the issue is maintaining it. Individuals get unexpected heart breaks whenever love falls short. 

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So many people have been interested in dating Kalenjin ladies due to various reasons. They are known to be humble, beautiful, good mothers, hardworking especially in the farms, and many other personal reasons one can have.

Keeping a relationship with a Kalenjin lady might require these three techniques;

Give her portion of land for a garden 

"We were taught by our mothers. We can't avoid doing garden work, " Josephine Kogo, a mother says.

Kalenjin ladies are fond of gardens. They are known to spend their free time there. They like planting vegetables, bananas, onions, potatoes, name them. For them, buying vegetables at the market, for those in the village, is a no.

Keep supporting her parents

Supporting her parents will probably melt her heart. She will love a man to a point of even donating her kidney if he needs. 

"If dad Limo is supporting my parents, why can't I love him? I will be submissive forever," Victoreen Jerono, a Kalenjin mother admits. 

Love all the children 

I don't know about other tribes but for a Kalenjin lady, children mean everything. Loving and providing for them makes a lady love you enormously. Give this a trial. 

"If he cannot afford to love us then I will be forced to move aside. Maybe he loves someone else," Jane Jekoech, a mother of 6 said.

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