Women are nowadays so insecure while dating men because of their past experiences with other men.

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Maybe, the man impregnated the woman and dumped her or the man cheated on her with another woman.

This has made women profile men as players and lairs who can't tell the truth.

In fact many women are torn whether to love with all their hearts or to just stay and wait for what will happen. 

But here are some of the ways to know if a Kamba man is ready to marry you:

1. Your people are his people

If a Kamba man is ready to marry you, he will build strong relationships with you people. 

He will respect them and come to their aid when in need.

He also won't say bad things about them.

2. Talks about the future plans with you

A man who is ready to marry you will be talking in a future continuous tense. 

If he says, "we will be going for holidays or travelling or to church together," that's an indicator you are in his future.

3. Defends you all the time

Some of his friends, relatives, etc may not like you. His brothers, sisters or mother may try to advice him to dump you. He should be there for you and defend you.

4. Buys you durable house holds

If your boyfriend does this, then you are in his future.

The logic is he is buying durable things like chairs and sofa sets because he will be there to use them.

5. Can do anything for you

He should be able to take you to the moon and back.

He can buy you a car of your dream, a dress of choice and anything you want if he's able financially.

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