Relationships are hard to start and maintain. It is not wrong for partners to fight in a relationship. 

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However, after a fight with your partner, there are some crucial questions you should always ask yourself. 

Here are three questions that you need to ask yourself whenever you fight with your partner:

1. Was the fight/quarrel worth it?

When you argue or fight with your partner, you will be emotionally, physically and mentally drained. 

Always ask yourself this question to know if the energy and emotions you deployed in the process was worth it. 

2. Was I selfish?

Usually, some quarrels and fights among partners have self-centeredness. 

It is always good to ask yourself if the quarrel you had was out of self-interest or the interest of both the two of you. 

This will help you avoid quarrels and fights of self-interest in future. 

3. How will you handle a similar situation next time?

This question will help you avoid the quarrel or fight the next time. 

Knowing how to handle the situation when it arises again will be of help to your relationship, as you will minimise on unnecessary arguments and fights.