Have you fallen in love with someone? Sometimes we think we are lucky only to realise we fell for the wrong person. 

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Before dating anyone, you need to know whether he or she will make a good partner. According to author CL Grant here are signs you are dating a loser:

1. He opens up about loving you too quickly

Love takes time. A real man should take time to know you before pouring out his heart. If he tells you he loves you within days of meeting him, there are chances he is a loser.

2. The people close to you do not like him

You cannot see something good when the people around you are not. If your friends keep telling you he is not worth your time, listen to them. There might be something they see that you are not seeing.

3. His actions don’t match his words

Are his actions different from his words? It might mean he is a loser. He cannot afford to put his words into action. A real man does what he says. 

4. He is self-obsessed

A loser only thinks about himself. He does not care about you. He does everything to please himself. A man with these qualities is not worth your time.

5. Your feelings don’t matter

A good man cares about the way you feel. If your feelings do not matter then, he is a loser. His greatest desire is to please himself. Even if you are not happy, he does not care.