You’ve been single for a long time and you are already used to your independence.

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Then all of a sudden, you get interested in someone and you don’t know how to handle the situation as you are not used to being committed to someone else.

Well, one thing to note is that there are always ways in which one can make both situations work perfectly.

Here are nine secrets of independent women in committed relationships.

1. They make decisions together

Do you engage your partner when making decisions together or does one person seem to be controlling the other?

For the relationship to work, there is always a need to consult each other when it comes to making decisions.

2. They develop a financial plan for now and the future

Financial issues are a huge discussion that couples have to be clear about.

Couples are expected to decide on whether to keep their money together or separate.

Either way, the financial goals should be achieved as a couple, not as individuals.

3. They know themselves and communicate their needs

It is important for couples to tell their spouse about their needs so that they can be familiar with them.

4. They communicate well

For a relationship to be termed as successful, there should be proper communication between the partners.

Communication between couples is important as it allows you to sort out any issues that may arise on time.

5. They negotiate time to spend apart and together

Since independent women are used to staying alone, they cannot automatically change and start spending all the time with their new partner.

In that case, it is important for the couple to agree on having some alone time.