As you set your heart and soul on that special lady you trust to have found, you also have to be careful to not be in the relationship alone. Nairobi women are sharp.
It could be possible that she is just tolerating you and will be so relieved if you elected to leave her alone. She could really like you, but only casually with no strings attached. If she casually likes you, it just means she is okay around you, but in her world, you are restricted to the periphery.
One of the indicators that point towards a casual liking is that she will always seem so happy and jovial during a one-on-one conversation, for example, but as it all ends, all you talked about is erased from her memory. A very special form of selective amnesia. You may text and call her for days on end but your information is all forgotten once you click that 'end call' button. Just watch out.
Another indicator is just that she will more often 'forget' to reply to your texts. You will text her at night and get no reply. As you meet the next day, she will apologise and confidently say that she forgot to reply. Well, if this happens every other day, consider leaving with all your dignity, at least.
Besides, you will know she has a casual liking for you when she is always excited at your side but okay when you are not together and not calling or texting. There could be reasons why it is not happening but she will do no effort to see it through. Around you, she will want to flirt, talking fondly about how nice you are, how perfect you can be for any lady; but once you go to your separate homes, all is forgotten. You want to talk, fine, you don't want to, also fine, and doesn't matter for how long that is.
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