The shyness is associated with low self-esteem. Those men who are shy like those from rural areas when first come to urban center face it hard to face slains of the town.
Eldoret being one of the biggest towns in Kenya, can't miss slains. These slains troubles shy guys in Eldoret. The shy men find it hard to approach them.
However, below are 4 tips to help you if you, are shy to approach Eldoret slains.
1. You don’t have to be too nice.
Most Eldoret slains are troublesome to shy men. It is hard to have them on your side as they will dictate you over life decisions. Therefore, don't be too sweet to an Eldoret girl to just to prevent yourself from being overlooked as a possible partner the way they take it. Be nice to her, but don’t nod to anything she says. You have your opinion and stay firm on it. This shows that you are a strong man who stands by his decision.
2. Do not try too hard to be someone else.
Almost all shy guys will try a bit too hard to impress their ladies or crushes. This is totally not healthy because the town slains are used to the famous rich individuals like the athletes since this is home of champion and politicians as you can't keep up with that forever. She might fall for that hard persona you create rather than the real you.
3. Associate more with confident and outgoing friends.
Since the town is metropolitan, the shy people face it rough to reach their crushes. There are most civilized ladies in the street of Eldoret who fear nothing, they will face you and demand you openly propose to them. If you are shy, then you need to surround yourself with people who are louder and more extroverted who will subconsciously help you to relax. Also, you won’t have to do all the work when it comes to approaching women and initiating conversation.
4. Mirror check first then face her.
Let us just keep it this simple that if you want to make yourself a better person, you take a look at yourself and then make that change. This might sound a little silly to any young person from interior of Uasin Gishu and has his first time in town, Eldoret. If you are shy, you should not avoid the mirror, by looking at yourself could reveal a lot about how other people see you. This will give you eagle to face these Eldoret slains who look so expensive to approach when you are shy.
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