Not every day will your lover offer you her cooking jar. Sometimes, you will find her not in the mood. However hard you try, she will not give in. Unlike men, women take time to get in the mood. The moment you understand this simple fact, the easier it will be for you to make her offer you her cookie jar.
Start early
Do not wait for bedtime to start making romantic advances. Chances are that you will fail to get her in the mood. If she says she does not want, then you will have a difficult task to convince her. The trick is always to start early. As early as when you wake up. Start telling her sweet things. Text her some romantic words. At around noon, remind her how you love and adore her. Text her you miss her. Be a little erotic. In the evening, call her and talk sweet things into her ears. By doing all these, you are preparing her for the night. By bedtime, you will have done 90 per cent of the work.
Elaborate foreplay
Women require a lot of foreplay. Invest in this and you will have an express way into her. Do not just undress her and start inserting things. No. You need to do everything in slow motion. Even the art of undressing should be very romantic. Touch and kiss a lot before you finally engage the wriggling of the waist.
Make amends
Women are very funny. She will refuse to give you her cookie jar not because she is not in the mood but because she is mad at you. There is something bad that you did to her and you have not apologized. She will deny you sex as punishment. So you need to always be alert. Be keen to details. Remember what you said or did wrong and make amends. Make peace before you start asking for sex. Surprise her with a gift and tell her you are sorry if you did something wrong. Promise her it will not happen again.