The best thing a mother can give to her kids is being a good mother for them. Once she is a good mother, everything will work out when it comes to the mother-child relationship.
You might want to know whether you are a good mother or not, actually, most mothers are good but they don't realize it, especially when their kids are not speaking about it.
Sometimes you might just think your children are kidding when they mention to you how good you are to them.
Here are key indicators that should convince you that you are a good mother to your kids;
1. Always looking for ways of improving your 'being her/his mother'
If you find yourself thinking about being better than you, for instance, you visit key Instagram pages of celebrated mothers to see what they share, it clearly indicates you are looking for ways of becoming a better mother and therefore you are a good mom.
2. If you have manners other village kids are asked to emulate
This proves a point beyond any doubts that you have raised good kids in the society where other parents are willing for their kids to associate with such manners. The reverse means you would have failed as a mother.
3. You children freely talk to you
If the elder kid is not using the younger one to ask for something from you, then it means all is good and you are a good mother to them. Open lines of communication with all your kids indicates you are a good mother.
Keeping your child a priority also reveal you are a good mother.