Dealing with depression in this city is not easy. Partners who are deepest are hard to please. It is good to find out whether the relationship is making you depressed before it is too late. 

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According to Your Tango, here are 5 warning signs your relationship is making you depressed

1. Element of dominance emerges

A depressed partner feels less powerful in the relationship. In most cases she feels no one cares about her or him. You feel it is a favor to be loved. An action needs to be taken with immediate effect to restore happiness in this case.

2. He or she becomes abusive

 An abusive relationship rarely lasts. If he or she becomes abusive then you will become depressed. Watch out his or her actions and you will notice all is not well

3. Too much criticism 

 When depressed, you feel you are always on the wrong. Nothing seems to work. You feel your partner knows all your wrong deeds. 

 4.. You are always told what to do

 A depressed partner feels she or he knows nothing. The other partner’s word is final. You are always reminded what to do.

5. Your partner becomes controlling

He or she will become controlling when you are depressed. He wants to speak on your behalf and handle issues even if it is just dealing with the conductor from town to home.  You have no say in the relationship. Your partner feels she or he is always right: It is during such a time that your partner feels he or she is always right. He or she wants to give direction. She controls every aspect of your life.