Most relationships start on a very high note.
However, things often change along the way.
Partners stop telling each other the sweet words they used to.
No one wants to apologise for the hurtful things he or she says anymore.
Some phrases we use in our daily lives put our love life at risk.
Here are five phrases that can ultimately destroy your relationship:
1. I told you
Your partner will definitely not be happy to hear such a statement from you.
If there is anything you feel is not right, say it.
It is wise to correct your partner in a friendly way than remind him or her how you warned him or her before the mess.
2. When did you start doing that?
When your partner starts getting concerned about certain things in the relationship, then all is not well.
We often expect our loved ones not to change along the way.
The statement can trigger disagreements whether it is true or not.
Learn to deal with the change rather than speaking about it, unless it becomes extreme.
3. You always do that
Relationships are not a bed of roses.
We all experience ups and downs when in love.
It is good to confront your partner when wronged, but remember not to go beyond the boundaries.
It is good to remind your partner that he or she has wronged you but in a friendly manner.
4. Don’t be oversensitive
It is normal for our partners to be concerned about our lives.
Do not stop your partner from getting concerned when things are not working as per his or her expectations in life.
Instead, you should learn to explain to him or her why you have changed all of a sudden than reprimanding him or her.
5. I will leave
Your partner will not be happy to hear these words.
Such a statement leaves your partner insecure.
He or she will live knowing you can walk away anytime.
Learn to control your anger when you feel like making this statement.#MyLifestyle