Some people are single by choice while others have got stereotypes surrounding love and relationships in general. 

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They have certain beliefs that always keep them in their desperate situations of singlehood. 

These intuitions restrain them from getting into nice and fulfilling relationships. 

The following are the common beliefs that hold you back from getting into working relationships:

1. Being too picky and overly selective

You might be having very high expectations about the partner that you desire to get. 

These hopes may lead to frustrations when you talk one on one with potential partners and discover that they have their weaknesses. 

It's normal to be picky but not fit to do it repetitively; be flexible. 

When you are very picky, you create a lot of hurdles, and you will struggle to connect with those that you would like to be in a relationship with.

2. Fear 

You may be having some panic about intimacy due to awful past experiences in your relationships, hence fear that the same will happen again. 

You may be contented that  “loving too much” would actually “pain too much” in case of a breakup. 

3. Low self-esteem

Some people have perceptions that no one would actually believe in them. 

They allow that inner critique to convince them that no one would fall for them, however hard they may try. 

Most struggle to make eye contact or making verbal communication with their potential partners.  

Lack of enough self-confidence leaves them unable to open up and fail to secure their attractions.