With our hustles at work, in buses, and the busy streets of Nairobi, it is still normal for a man to get attracted to a beautiful lady.
In fact, men always develop a crush on any beautiful lady they meet. Courageous men will approach the lady and compliment her, reveal his feelings or request for the phone number.
Requesting for phone number is the common method most Nairobians men use as a bait.
Here are three important tips to texting or calling her for the first time:
Appropriate timing
Texting or calling her during the night is the best thing. You should ensure that you contact her when she is not busy since she can easily miss or snob your call. She can also fake to be busy during the day when she is not interested in you or finds you to be boring in any way.
Use soft words
The first impression means a lot as she will decide whether to continue communicating with you or not. You should use polite and kind words and any harsh or hurting language will automatically disqualify you. Most ladies get attracted to polite men as this will mean a ‘soft’ life for her.
Don't force her to reply to your messages or calls
It is normal for a lady not to reply to your messages during the first time since no one wants to look cheap or desperate. She can also take a longer period to reply in a way which suggests that she is not interested in you.
Never start vibing a Nairobian with poorly selected words or try to force her to reply or pick your calls.