If you have ever fallen in love, you have probably realised that love is as dangerous as drugs taken against the doctor’s prescription; say like cocaine.
Thank God we have specialists who counsel drug addicts, but who can control a girl when she is in love? Nobody, not even the mother.
That is when love makes people go crazy and do these stupid things:
1. Giving in to sex because he promise you something:
It happened in India a week ago, where a girl has filed a rape case against his boyfriend, with whom she agreed to go to bed with after he promised to marry her. Be it marriage, a big car, business capital, a smartphone or anything else, you should always know that your body is more important than those earthly things.
2. Giving your money to a man:
If she comes from a wealthy family, she will do anything to keep the man, use her school fees, pocket money, salary, even if he is a gangster, she still loves him.
3. Sharing secrets:
Girls should know that they were born alone, not with this man, so why should you go about revealing all about your family, how your father is rich, how fat your mama’s account is, how your family hates you? Of course, there are consequences, if he won’t disrespect you, he will always take advantage of you.
4. Bride price:
Actually, the question here is; has he followed your traditions now that you stay in his apartment? If no and probably hasn’t introduced you to his parents, how sure are you that you are his only princess? Think otherwise.
5. Pictures:
With the current state of technology in the world, one can take any form of a picture with that ka-selfie stick. Others have gone to the extent of recording videos and sending them to their loved ones…You will know kimeumana, when you part ways, and he decides to expose your fundamentals online via Whatsapp groups, or Facebook.
6. Ring:
You need to stop wearing those engagement rings, if he isn’t talking about your marriage soon.
7. Stop being a weekend maid:
They say most break-ups happen during the weekend. Why? Because when you decided to become his maid before marriage, washing and cleaning his apartment during the weekend, you discovered some bras that aren’t yours.
8. Loveless relationship:
I’ve always wondered why people remain in a relationship knowing that he or she doesn’t love you. Girls often fall prey to this because when a girl loves, they say she loves for real, but if he doesn’t love you, stop wasting time