I want for once and for all clear the minds of most of people regarding to the life of women.
Many believe they know more about women than they really do. Above all, men are the ones who pose as the know-it-all people who can tell anything about women ranging from character to behaviour.
They even claim they know about their lives and what they mean when they speak. The most dramatic part of it is that men themselves don’t know the men in a woman’s life, rather, they just assume and take the assumptions as factual.
In case you never knew, a woman is not complete without a man just as a man too is not complete without a woman. One thing is true though, that a woman can as well survive without some kind of men in her life since there are several types of them but who happen to come in different capacities and classes.
Despite this, there is one thing that cannot change and that is, every man will have to maintain his position no matter what. This happens, however, without anyone’s knowledge, it just comes naturally. No one ever plans it all think about it critically.
All through life, from birth, a woman comes into contact and more so interacts with many men in her life maybe including the midwife.
Father
There is this ‘most natural’ relationship that is there between a girl and her father (mostly biological). There is always this man who is the ‘father figure’-this is the biological father of the girl in most cases, in some incidences though, he might not be biological but even a foster father who has taken care of the girl from her childhood or even since she was born.
He is always there to provide solutions to the girl’s problems and challenges like a father should. He will be there to provide fatherly love to the girl and is always the girl's first love.
Whenever a father holds her daughter in his arms, there is that natural feeling that is portrayed and comes out openly to clearly tell the world that ‘my daddy is around, keep off’.
He is the first man to give paternal love.
Brother
They might have been born from the same parents or may came from different mothers but the same father or vice versa.
Platonic friend
This is the man who is close to the girl and their love is purely agape. They like each other so much and share many things in common. They share a lot but only intimate love.
The girl finds it fun and interesting to be around this friend since she is very comfortable around him and does not need to struggle or strain so much to impress him as he would were it her boyfriend.
The best friend
This is the man the girl likes most.
Whenever confused, feeling low, in times of crisis or after a break up, the lady will always find a crying shoulder to lean on in her best friend.
This is the guy who many people around will mistake to be the boyfriend or the Mr Right but no, he is not the one.
The girl will find it easy to share every story with her friend, be it good or bad, openly. She will find a place in her heart to speak out her heart and mind to her best friend, she might even share the most confidential secrets that she could not talk about with her girlfriends.
This is the best relationship that defines one with no strings attached. A girl would rather sleep over her best friends place than go to her girlfriend's place when in bad terms with her man or whenever something is terribly wrong in her life at that moment and there is no one she can talk to.