When you move in with your charming boyfriend it always seems like the best moment of your lifetime but it's advisable to listen to your elders who have gone through the same.
He will treat you like a queen, at first, let's say for the first two months if he is really a cool guy. He will even help you with household chores, he will prepare dinner as you make lunch and do the dishes while you do the laundry.
Wait, hold on... hey gal what are we having for lunch? He will tirelessly do that until you run out of choices and you can't help but feel wowed.
Few months later, he won't want to suggest since he is buying the food so you should have the food in mind and get ready to prepare the meals by yourself, no help.
Get ready because things are heating up dear. If you try talking him into helping he says it should be the woman's duty to cook and a question is paused... What percentage of help do you want?
Mid 4th month all the pampering done to a girlfriend is withdrawn. No more gifts gifts 'hapa na pale'.
After all, why would he egg you? Are you not comfortably relaxing in his tiny box?
The sweet nothings fade away slowly... If you happen to buy yourself a dress (now that he does not buy you dresses anymore) he is like; "I see you can't help but buy yourself new dresses all the time, huh!"
Girlfriend, do you wanna hear that? doesn't 'that's my beautiful angel over there' sound pretty nice..huh? I know you want that, we all want that.
My friend, if you really want that then don't move in before he has put a ring on that cute finger. Things could go bad to a point you even envy your mother who has been married for over 20 years.
I will tell you point blank, moving in could give you a sense of security but you gotta be patient. He's gonna wait for you until you both ready to tie the knot and move in together in style.
You don't want to be in a situation where you want to leave but you just can't, where you cry but he thinks you're overreacting and just being a drama queen..or do you?
So before you move in with him, how about you think thrice?