The first encounter at the start of a relationship basically focuses on reducing uncertainty by increasing the pair’s knowledge of each other.
In campus, the slang synonymous in such context is kukatiana. When was the last time you katiad? Rather, what was your goal? And how did it turn out?
This now opens room for unending tales like William Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet. What’s notable is that, Shakespeare’s characters are always set in plots that demand moral honesty.
In fact, it is this ingenuity in creating characters that has entertained many and produced models to imitate, at the same time it has also helped many to be resisted by wickedness.
Regardless of whether you learn relationship stuff from books, family members, peers or a host of media sources, there is a general agreement that young people are losing it today in the game of kukatiana.
This era of technology, commonly referred to as digital age, has been a game changer on pertaining to what goes into kukatiana.
Shelly Cashman series on Living in a Digital World, notes that text messaging, instant messaging, and picture/video messaging are now instantaneous communication powered with the various forms of messaging services.
After a blind date on Facebook, Mato, a tall,dark and handsome dude and Verra, hot, curvy with a flat belly and round lips, a hell of a lady, who were geographically separated, decided to meet at a local joint in Nakuru town.
This is after interacting on Facebook during an addictive chat that first began with inboxing each other about non-controversial topics, more like surface questions such as where they studied, hobbies and interests.
Increasingly, they developed constant streams of inboxes each day until they began to divulge deeper into intimate stuff such as sending nude photos of each other. This was the climax of the kukatiana mode.
As such, Mato and Verra became relaxed with each other and felt bored.
When Verra felt a strong urge of further exploration, she put him out like the burning end of a midnight cigarette and turned to another random friend on Facebook.
This really broke his heart as Mato spent his whole life trying to forget her. He started drinking his pain away a little at a time but could never get drunk enough to get her off his mind until the day he went for random Verras in Gituamba, along the dark streets of Nakuru's CBD, and finally they would drink away his memories of her.
Life was short but this time, it was bigger. In short, he couldn’t remember what he was doing until he lost the strength he had to get off his knees.
The following day after many months, he was found with his face down and covered with a pillow with a note that said, "I died to be allergic to Verra." He was later buried in Nakuru North Rift Cemetery.
Rumors flew, but nobody knew how much he blamed himself for years and years, he tried to hide the addiction on his breath.
He finally drank his pain away a little at a time, but he never could get drunk enough to get sherry out of his mind until that day on the pillow.
Every day men encounter beautiful girls with bodies like goddesses who overwhelm them with a great deal of disturbed emotions.
Anyway, Verra can be every man’s dream but every man can’t be Verra’s dream. Her misery needs company. Image source; podcast.toonamifaithful.com