Managing relationships is challenging, and only those managed through mutual understanding survive the test of time.
Ladies, it's said, enter into relationships madly and are always ready to do anything for the people they love.
This explain why they get hurt the most when relationships break.
Much as forgiveness is the biggest pillar of relationships, small mistakes that people do hurt more than physical wounds and one cannot bare them for long.
So what repels ladies the most when on a date?
The most embarrassing moment is when you fail to do it the way she expects.
Like it's mostly said, first impression matters and the mistake you make on your first date may simply kill your love life.
Time is an ally of most people. Take note of the time and ensure you are punctual for the date.
And more importantly, ensure your date enjoys the place.
Make sure you are in comfortable shoes (especially ladies) as well as the dress.
An appropriate dress for an occasion gives a super impression about yourself.
Try to be at the place 15 minutes before the meeting time.
In case you are tied and there is a possibility of delaying, call and let the other person know.
In case you plan to pick up your date (if you are a guy) be there in time.
And if you drive, don't just watch them open the car door for themselves but do it for them (for the case of guys).
This only shows that you are a gentleman and that you mind her more than any other lady out there.
Bringing on jokes would also work. Give your date time to talk and please do not interrupt them when it is their turn to talk.
Laugh at every joke they make even when you know they do not make you laugh.
Ensure your date feels free because this will make them open up to you.
Spend most of the time asking questions about the person you are with on a date other than talking about yourself.
Questions create room for more answers and explanations and through this, you will be able to know your spouse well.
Again, importantly, keep eye contact very often for you to get familiar to each other. This will also give you room to open up.
Never ever answer a phone call on a date unless the call is urgent, but still excuse yourself before picking it.
Offer her your jacket (if you are a guy)- this is romantic.
And finally, appreciate their time and make a request to have the same event again.