Cheating is wrong whether you have a dozen reasons or not. Interestingly, many of those who do it know this but continue with the habit probably because as they say `stolen waters are sweet. `
In most cases the cheating is based on a lie or two that the cheaters and their accomplices want to be true. Below are three most misused lies:
1. I am happier with you than my spouse
When the going gets tough at home, this is likely to be their number one excuse to cheat. However this is the biggest lie of all time. For many people who cheat, there is something extra they are looking for out there. It could be money, more exciting sex, respect and the like. So the cheater will come to you for one thing or two that he/she is lacking and not the love he pretends to have for you. Therefore, many cheaters will only tell you the negative things and what is lacking in his/her marriage and never the good things. The tragedy is that the day he/she discovers your weaknesses is the last day you will see him. Secondly, the moment their spouse fixes what he/she is lacking at home, they will be back home fully and you will be left on your own.
2. I can’t just stay without you
This is another lie cheating spouses tell their mpango wa kando. Sadly, they can’t really tell you why they can’t stay without you. This lie is popular because it allows cheaters to blame some mystery for their failure. These are the same people who will blame the devil, friends and genes for cheating when caught by their spouses. You should be worried when someone has no reason for purporting to love you. If someone really loves you, they will have enough reasons why they can’t stay without you.
3. I will leave her for you
Unfortunately, many women have believed this and ended up frustrated for a long time living year unending waiting for the married man to leave his wife for them. However the truth is if he was leaving his wife for you he would have done it like yesterday. Secondly, if you were that important he would be introducing you as the official wife. You either settle to be hidden for the rest of your life or walk away and get your own man.
There you have it, watch out on these lies just in case someone has made you believe them or you are actually using them.