Many people ask these questions quite often. Are there fairytale relationships? Does real love exist? Is there a good man on earth? Is there a good woman in the world? Is there perfect love under the sun? Are there happy people in relationships on this earth?
All these questions have only one answer in common: The secrets to a real relationship are few and simple but really hard for some people to follow hence leading to the end of many relationships under very bad circumstances.
Respect is one of the key things in any relationship and, of course, the core wall to a long lasting relationship and even a successful marriage. One thing many people debate about is what love actually is; some say it comes from the heart, others say it is a disease of the mind; others argue that love is a mental case.
One thing they don’t clarify is that love is an affectionate feeling, the opposite of obsession; it is neither lust nor hatred. Love is a different feeling that words can't explain, only the ones who feel it know it.
Only actions can sincerely express or tell that someone is in love and the love is sincere beyond any obstacles, hills or valleys. It is a two people affair; not more, not less.
Men who expect too much from their counterparts should also learn some life, love lessons such as being loving and lovable, being loyal, respectful and trustworthy if not faithful. It is rather painful than shameful that dogs are faithful to man than a man is to a woman he apparently claims to be in love with.
Ladies are undoubtedly complicated but impeccably affectionate creatures. They fall in love sincerely and deeply which makes them vulnerable and get hurt as deeply as they fall in love.
One thing men don’t know is that a woman decides whether or not she will be with you the first time she sets her eyes on you; it doesn’t matter if you approach them then or in future; she already has set her mind and made her final decision about you...so watch her ways when you meet her and communicate to her for the first time, indeed it is true and factual that the first impression matters a great deal.
Women contrary to men put their trust so much to the ones they love hence easily getting heart broken. Once your woman starts doubting you for your actions, she ends up doubting everything about you and gradually starts hating you.
Couples should be open minded to each others new ideas while at the same time embracing their differences. Such is viewed as an honour as Mike Murdock puts it in his book; School of wisdom Library: honor is the seed for a long life and as such relationship.
In a nutshell, wisdom is a very expensive but yet fundamental aspect in any relationship; wisdom between couples is key to a prosperous fruitful.