No matter how much you are hurt once a relationship is over, you should never insult someone based on information that he or she trusted you with. Eat the humble pie, it doesn’t hurt a thing. Some things make one lose faith in humanity especially when you thought you trusted them that much.
These things are:
Family
A sane human being, you should not make a mockery of someone’s family or lack thereof. He or she trusted you with the unsavoury part of his or her family hoping that you’d understand them better as a person. He or she wanted you to lift them from the ruins of their childhood, and make them better people. Don’t use that information against him or her. It is not a court case for God’s sake.
Bodily shortcomings
I don’t know what girls find offensive or insulting but I do know what a man will find insulting and demeaning – telling them how he isn’t endowed where it matters. It is a common tactic used by jilted ladies to make a man hate his self. Even though that tool fed her for years, she will still find it in her to say it wasn’t the right size.
Financial status
When the relationship hits that iceberg and the two of you try to hold on to anything lifesaving, insults become the order, if (you could argue) both of you decides to go to the trenches. Often, a lady will hit at her man, telling him how broke he is. This might be interpreted to mean that she was doing him a favour by dating him when all around were wealthy men who wanted her.
It may be hurtful, too hurtful that you lose inhibitions when you are heartbroken. At that point, you may say whatever comes to your mind just to get back at your soon-to-be ex. Does it ever occur to you that you could be really hurting the other person? Does it ever occur to you that you could take some time to think things through?
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