Let's get real, for a minute; if what couples argued over was really to be considered as pertinent issues, then there would be no relationships after all.
Nobody walks into a relationship blind-folded, at least under normal circumstances.
Hence, any differences that arise within the lovers' nest is definitely trivial and to an extent totally addressable.
However, whenever these simple, negligible and neglect-able issues compound over a period of time, they can become vile poison to a prior stable and loving relationship.
Here are some of the useless things that couples should really stop fighting over:
1. Difference in tastes and preferences
These range from wardrobe choices to eating habits.
Couples should embrace each other's individuality which in turn strengthens their union.
Arguments over such issues should be totally avoided.
2. Communal sharing
Leaving the toilet seat up and squeezing the toothpaste in the middle definitely top this list of arguments.
However, these kinds of arguments are normally triggered by deep-seated anger and resentment.
3. Gender roles and egos
Household chores can take a toll if left entirely to one partner.
This imbalance may likely lead to avoidable arguments.
Helping your significant other with their household chores can go along way in building a healthy, respectful and balanced relationship.
4. Remote control
Now this carries the prize, especially in young households where there are no children in the picture.
Rivalry over remote control could be quite fierce and may end up causing arguments.
5. Late night partying
Sometimes old habits die hard. Especially, when your partner still hangs around with single friends who do not appreciate the responsibility that comes with relationship life.
Staying out late is a common cause of arguments in most relationships.
However, this can be ironed out when both partners stay committed and understand values that govern relationships.
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