Dealing with abandonment issues can be one of the most daunting tasks in a relationship. Individuals who do not know how to handle tough times find it hard rising above the storm to become successful.
Determining whether you have issues to do with abandonment or rejection can be tricky at times.
Here three signs you have abandonment issues and how to handle them
1. Denying yourself to please others
Some people do things to please others. Never make a mistake of pleasing others at the expense of your happiness. Make sure you are being true to yourself at all times. Engage in things that will bring joy into your life. Avoid things that will hurt you in the name of pleasing another person who doesn't care about your wellbeing.
2. Quick attachment
Some people are too quick to commit themselves to others. If you are always quick to get into new relationships, it means you might have abandonment issues. If you're going to solve this issue, then you must be ready to take time to get to know people and understand them before committing yourself to them.
3. Too much criticism
Too much criticism will only bring you down in life. Do not be the kind of person who always sees mistakes in your partner or in the relationship. It is good to speak positive things into someone’s life. Appreciate the efforts your partner puts in to make the relationship work.