Along the way, you fell in love without knowing how or why. It was spontaneous, or preordained as you sometimes joke with each other.
It is happiness within the first few months with the two of you on each other’s necks (pleasantly) practically every single hour of the day.
Unknowingly, she begins drifting away, slowly at first, and you struggle to catch up with her. It is not her anymore, but because you are very much in love, you put a fight. But then, one day, the bomb goes off. She has found someone else!
You then trace back your steps and see subtle signs that should have told you to plan your life without her. Here are the signs:
She stopped arguing
You remember the day she asked you to buy her something. It was not even expensive but you were too proud. When the two of you met, she was not enthusiastic at all.
She does not kick a fuss, calmly accepting the fact that you didn’t buy her what she wanted. At that point, she may have made up her mind to go.
When she asks you to hang up so that she can receive another call
Its 10 pm and the clock is quickly ticking to the next hour. You two are talking the same way you have been doing the past year or so. She then asks you to hang up so that she can receive another call.
Who could that be if not someone she does not want to annoy by not picking his call? It’s not her boss of course!
She insults you without remorse
As it is with any relationship, tempers sometimes flare up over transgressions on the significant other’s part. In the past, she would be angry but then apologize later.
That’s how you’ve known her. It slowly gets to a point where she attacks your unapologetically but you shoulder this burden and even apologise for something you have not done just because you love her.
She begins comparing you with other guys or your relationship to another
There is always a cute couple within your circle of friends. They are immensely into each other. But when she begins comparing you with them, know your goose is cooked.
She no longer sees the string that binds the two of you anymore.
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