Exes can ruin our love life. You must ensure that the man or woman you have met is over the ex before deciding your next move. 

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Some exes can come back to cause us more harm in our relationships when they realize we have found happiness in life. 

Here are 3 ways to know if your date is over his or her ex. 

1. He/she has been single for some time

You need to find out how long he or she has been single in order to know whether the ex is still part of their lives. It is common to see people going back to their past relationships. 

Do not date someone who has broken up less than one month ago. The person is likely to use and dump you for another one.

2. He/she makes you feel secure

You need some form of assurance in order to realize happiness in your next relationship. The fear of the unknown can make life even tougher on your side. 

You need a partner who makes you feel your worth. He or she must prove that you are the only person in their lives. Never waste time in a relationship where you feel the ex could come back anytime.

3. Limited contact

Does he keep calling him or her? Continuous contact spells doom for you. If your man or woman is ever talking to the ex then know very well that you are doomed. 

The constant communication could lead to something brewing up between the two at the end of the day.