It is normal for couples to argue and fight in a relationship. For your relationship to last, reconciliation is vital after fighting.
During a fight, things might get heated up and you might do things out of anger. However, here are types of text messages you should never send to your partner when arguing.
1. Insults
Do not let your anger control you, insults have a long term effect on your partner even after reconciling. If you value the relationship, always opt for an apology instead of hurling insults and abuses to your partner. This would only make things worse.
2. Details of past fights
Do not bring up details of past fights, especially if you had agreed to forget about them. This would clearly illustrate that you still have not let go of your previous pain. It would also remind your partner of the pain they went through that time. Every relationship has a past but it is important to dwell on the present.
3. Threats
Do not threaten your partner that you’re going to hurt yourself because things are not working out. Don’t threaten your partner that you’re going to break up with them if you still value your relationship. Threats will only escalate the situation and lead to something worse.