It is worth noting that not everyone who is close to you is your friend especially the so-called Best Friends Forever (BFF). 

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Just because he/she always compliments you and checks on you from time to time, it does not make him/her your real friend. Some people are just out to manipulate a single aspect of your life and when they are done, they will leave. 

This is why you should be careful. More often than not, the BFFs in your life are different people such as the following:

1. Back-biters

You should be able to differentiate the real friends and the fake ones who are just there to pass their time. 

There are people who will sing with you this instant but after you have left, they will sing against you. Such people include individuals who are not interested in you; they are in your life on an ulterior ill motive.

2. Time Wasters

There are people we let close to us but in the long run, if you reflect about the value they have added to your life, you will know that they are pulling you behind. 

These kinds of people, do not have any plans for the future, they are here, not to make you a better person but to hold you from progressing. They will hang around so that you can waste all your money on "form", just drinking and getting wasted.

3. They can leak your secrets

It happens in most cases that the person your enemies can use to get to you is your best friend. I

The BFFs know so much about you and releasing your secrets intentionally or unintentionally is possible. You need to be careful with the information you share since you do not know if they will stay loyal in case you fall out or if they will use the information you trusted them with to destroy you