When your relationship hits a stormy patch, the two of you often retaliate in ways that they know best: anger, insults, or simply retreating without saying a word. However, some are sly and may say words that make you feel guilty. 

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We’ve come from far 

He or she often traces the road you’ve travelled together as couples, outlining the thorns that pricked your feet along the way. Your partner will say also talk about how much they’ve endured with you, or simply put up with you. They often say this in a manner that’ll suggest he or she was doing you a favour. 

You will never get someone like me 

Once the two of you are no longer in talking terms, sometimes after undocumented differences, he or she will talk about how good they were to you and how you won’t ever get someone like them. To feel guiltless, people have now turned this phrase around to mean that their exes were the worst in every imaginable way. 

Who do you want to help me now? 

Often it is the ladies who use this phrase, especially when seeking a favour. It is intended to make the partner feel as though he is the only man in his life, and the one and only fall back plan when the world gets stormy. As her partner, you’ll feel guilty that she’s being faithful [as far as you are concerned] and you are not willing to step in to offer a hand of help.

Have fun 

It happens that you tell her that you want to go out and probably won’t be reachable for quite a while. She will retort by telling to have fun, which often means don’t go out. Most of the times she hangs the phones, and the echo of her voice lingers in your head a tad longer as you decide whether to go out or not. If you do, you will be guilty that you are going without her.