Nairobi is a city full of womanisers, that if you get a faithful and committed partner, you need to count yourself lucky and blessed.
Ladies in the dating world, if you want to know and distinguish guys who are hungry for "action" from those who are genuinely looking for love, here are some tell-tale signs to watch out for:
1. He will only text you at night
They tend to go missing in action during the day and come out alive during late nights.If he only contacts you during late nights claiming he misses you so much, it's not your smile that he is missing, he is just fantasising on how long it's going to take to get you over to his place and do adult 'stuff'.2.Says he is "open" to a relationshipThis is a very cloudy phrase that players like to use, just to hide the fact that he won't commit to you.If he says he's open to a relationship, he does not mean he's looking for only one girl; you might be just one of the many. Stay woke 'sis'.
3.Makes 'sex jokes' five seconds after meeting you
This is a red flag ladies.
He may do it while laughing, but he truly means business; only interested in getting in your pants.
Also when they text you these 'sex jokes', they tend to cover up the embarrassment with cute little emojis.
They also have a tendency of asking you to send sexy photos of you. Beware!
4.Doesn't ask anything about you
Someone who is not curious about you is simply not into you.
If he won't ask questions about your life in general, 'sis' run, he's a player.
In the end, you will find yourself flirting for a whole year only to realise you hardly know each other.
5.Complements you way too much
If he gives you excessive and exaggerated compliments every time, and he barely knows you, be very worried.
A guy who throws compliments to you after every second is definitely targeting a short term reward.
He's just trying to make you excited and giddy up on the idea of love prospects between you two, but in reality, he is a player. Don't be sworn.