Communication is very key in relationships.
Partners feel hurt when you don’t listen to them.
However, many reasons could make your partner not listen to you when you are talking to them.
Here are five reasons your partner doesn’t listen when you talk to them:
1. Wrong timing
Sometimes your partner could be preoccupied with other activities or even tired.
At such times, the chances of getting all their attention could be minimal.
Choose the appropriate time to hold certain conversations, unless they don’t need to wait.
2. You hurt them
You could be saying things that hurt your partner.
They might have complained this to you, but you don’t change.
The best thing they will do when you start such conversations again is to ignore you so that they don’t feel hurt engaging in it.
3. You are monotonous
Your partner could want to talk about new things in the relationship.
However, when all you do is engage in the same old conversations, he/she will ignore you.
It gets monotonous discussing the same things over and over.
4. You don’t listen to them too
If you don’t listen to your partner when they talk to you, chances are they won’t listen to you either.
This will create a bad habit in the relationship that will cause lack of proper communication.
5. You lecture them
Some partners give lectures in relationships.
Many people don’t like being lectured with people they love.
They like having conversations. When you keep lecturing your partner, chances are they won’t listen to you.
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