Your partner has promised to make the world a small corner of paradise on earth for you. You have deeply fallen in love with him or her. There are some expectations that are hard to meet. Here are four unrealistic expectations that can cost your relationship.

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1. Your partner will understand your silence

Never assume that your partner will understand your silence. He or she is not angel to know what is happening in your life. Speak out if you want him or her to know how you feel about different things in life.

2. Your partner will change

We often wait for our partners to change. Some people never change. If he is not treating you right then it is time to accept and move on. Life is too short to wait for someone to change.

3. Striving to be the centre of his/her world

Let him or her make you the centre of his world. His or her life might be revolving around something else. Do your best and your partner will determine whether you can be together for years or not.

4. You should be his priority

It hurts when you realize he or she has not made you a priority. There are things that matter to him or her more than you. A partner who doesn’t make his or her priority is not worth your time