Many a times, ladies would tell their guy to man up and be a gentleman. All they need is a man whose actions scream love.
Ladies want to be showered with love and basked in unceasing attention. They know the taste of genuine love and thus they don't want to settle for less.
Being a gentleman is much of a cake walk. It allows one abounding access into the heart of their lady. Anyone can be a gentleman.
Gaining the gentleman's status doesn't come by force neither does it come by influence, it comes by you accepting and realizing that she's worth more than silver and gold.
The art of getting the gentleman's tag is easy to decipher.
Here is a list of what it takes to be a gentleman, and making her feel at home in your loving presence;
1. Learn to complement her in the best way possible
It's a sharp truth that love runs the world. It subdues the normal runnings of the brain, making a girl give all her heart to you. Learn to compliment her without using the pinching cliches like "You look beautiful." telling her something like "I like the way the dress fits you perfectly" or "your eyes make you appear so butterfly intimidating"won't make your vocal cords crash down. Give it a try and you'll notice how her heart will blend to yours so quickly.
2. Don't judge her
Ladies hate being judged, worst of all if the judgment comes from their lover. When she decides to open up to you, move a nerve and give her a shoulder to lean on. Make her feel in the midst of love by the way you hold her close when she speaks her mind. If she talks about craving to meet you on a daily basis that doesn't mean if you go a week without meeting her she'll leave you for the Kevo next door.
3. Don't give her reasons to think you are after her body
Intertwining your fingertips together and pressing your body to hers can feel like the sweetest thing you've ever discovered, but, doing this in public will make you appear stupid. You don't want to appear as if you only think of her body as meet to be devoured. You can show her that you love her without touching her suggestively. Maybe a kiss on her forehead will do.
4. Focus on pleasing her in ways she won't forget
Surprising her with random gifts will melt her heart. Be it a watch, just get one for her when she least expects it. This will cuddle her heart with love. Remember a lady is a gift from heaven for you. She runs in your soul and dwells in your heart.
Love your lady and she'll love the way you love her. Give her a standing ovation. Hold her in your arms and whisper to her how much you love her. By doing this you would have succeeded in being a gentleman.
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