Having spent so much time for that special guy who would love you as you desire, you should not be overly excited when you first meet any of his kind.
You need to stay calm, look around you and know more about him as well. Not all that glitters is gold.
There could be more than what meets the eye. He could even have another personality underneath that you are seeing but it is just well concealed.
But what are the things you should know when you first meet him? Well, here are the three basics you must get to know:
1. His work situation
You should know what he does to sustain himself and what he will be doing to possibly sustain you both. This is no ground to dump or walk out on him.
Just ask him to be honest about everything so that you can prepare for a life together or how you are going to help each other grow and flourish on multiple platforms. If there are question marks on how he makes his money, you need to be very worried.
2. How he speaks about himself and other people
The purpose of this is to just know the kind of person you are going to live with. He could be an egotist who will not want you or anyone else topple him on anything, or, he could be the nicest person who is capable of motivating you as well as allowing you to be with your peers for your own growth and development. Either case, be prepared.
3. How his last relationship ended
It is not offensive at all to ask about his last relationship. Let him be honest and open up about his other life.
If you don't know about that, you could be getting into someone who is going to terrorize you and leave you for the dead. Just watch out.
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