What one goes through after a breakup is tough. 

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This reality might tempt you to start offering company and advice to your friend. 

You should avoid concentrating on this topic because you are likely to hurt her by saying these four simple things:

1. There are alternatives

This statement will not cool your friend’s ill feelings. 

She already knows that there are alternatives if she decides to love again. 

Every person is unique in his ways. 

You should only let her know her worth without directly informing her that she has to move on in search of a replacement.

2. I know how you feel

No one knows how anyone feels when something bad happens. 

Regardless of how many breakups you have been through, hers is a unique scenario. 

This phrase can make her feel you are belittling the magnitude of her misfortune.

3. I liked/disliked him

This should be avoided because it could hurt her if the statement does not rhyme with her opinion. 

She might have liked him too much to talk ill about him, or she hates the decision to leave to the extent of not wanting to hear any positive word about him. 

Letting her know whether you liked him or not is not a wise statement.