The term ‘nice guy’ is a fairly loose term here, that could a guy who’s given up his philandering ways to concentrate on loving one woman at a time, or basically that guy who cannot multitask for reasons best known to him.
As such there are things that make these men insecure. Of course, these things have to be done repeatedly to make an impact. A onetime thing is just like water under the bridge, that passes without notice. These are:
Unexplained source of money
Since the two of you met and gradually let time decide that you fall in love, you have learned a few things about her – her background and stuff. If at some point in the relationship she begins having money that you darn sure you didn’t provide or her background doesn’t, it sure ticks insecurity bells in a guys mind. A new sheriff may be in town.
Not returning calls or texts in time
Remember those days you couldn’t stop talking, texting each other as if it was a form of transferring purified oxygen? Remember those days when she could pick the phone on the second ring? Sometimes, along with the course of the relationship, these things dwindle quite understandably. But when it becomes chronic, going for hours before getting in touch, then a nice guy is bound to be insecure.
Complementing another guy
There’s always a certain insecurity that clings to nice guys. It often feels like someone out there is out to get the girl, and so once the girlfriend begins complementing other guys, especially how they dress, or basically the money the guy has. It is bound to make the guy insecure.
Jealously guarding the phone
As it is, a nice guy does not have anything to hide. His phone, as far as he is concerned, is clean. When the girl refuses to hand over the phone, it raises questions about fidelity, making the guy question his loyalty to that girl.
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