Whenever misunderstandings come about your relationship, it will take long before you come to a consensus especially considering the magnitude of the mistake done by one of you. In most cases, one of you has to just act mature and let the other one win. It is advisable that a man becomes the sacrificial lamb here. As a man, just let her win and move on. Ladies are most vulnerable and all that you do or say during a heated argument will probably be inscribed at the back of her memory for prolonged periods of time. As such, there are things you should never mention to your girl or woman during a fight.
Here are the things you should never say to her during a heated exchange.
1. "Relax..."
Telling her to relax during an argument will make everything crumble and take you back to the first step. You should handle everything as is but make sure to not tell her anything like that. Well, some may be okay but on the general, women find it highly disrespectful to be told to relax when they are trying their best to prove a point.
2. "Are you okay...."
Asking her if she is okay will slow down the process and the journey of striking an agreement. Of course, nothing is okay and she is trying to probably prove that. Asking her if she is okay will almost essentially start everything over again.
3. "Why are you doing this..."
This sentiment will freak her out. You are supposed to handle her with care as you look to strike an agreement and a consensus. Asking her why there is a disagreement will in some way, show that you are outrightly accusing her of everything that has happened. It will be like stirring a storm.
4. "Is this why your ex..."
Mentioning her ex during an argument will really be cruel to her emotional state. Questioning why her ex left while taking a direct reference to the state of affairs will damage her quintessentially. Always stay away from anything to do with her previous love life, if any, during an argument.
5. "Am sorry.....you happy now?"...
If you want to end the misunderstanding or the fight ones and for all, just say you are sorry or apologise and leave it at that. Apologising while being in any way suggestive that your apologies are meant to make her happy will be disastrous to the already sour state of affairs.