Flirting is one of the fastest ways you can pass your message of interest to someone. Many men use this tactic to win the hearts of women. While flirting, make sure you get everything right. Some silly mistakes can spoil the moment. Here are four flirting mistakes you are probably making.

Is there a story unfolding in your community? Let Hivisasa know

1. Smothering

When flirting, learn to entice someone and not to smother the person. Give him or her personal space to decide. Tempt and tease the person to win his or her heart.

2. Flirting with many people at the same time

Never hit on more than one person at the same. There are those of us who want to flirt with everyone at the same time. Flirting with different persons can end up frustrating you in the long run. 

3. Doing all the talking

Avoid engaging in a monologue. Let the person also say something. Give him or her a chance to express themselves. It is not all about you.

4. Talking about the ex

Never talk about your ex when flirting. Talking about your ex will only land you in trouble. There are better things to do than talking about your ex.  Find more interesting topics to discuss with the man or woman in your life than your ex.