Being selfish has often been regarded as a vice in the society we live in but it is by far better in some situations.
Being selfish in a relationship actually gives you the power to be you and to make your own decisions without having to question or even criticise and scrutinize yourself before doing them.When you are selfish in a relationship, it means all is dependent on you and the other partner has to put up with that. This is way too beneficial as it gives you the chance to want what you deserve. Your decisions are not controlled by your partner at all. If you choose happiness, you get that and if they are being a barrier to the happiness, you have the power to push them away.You also get to choose who to relate to. This allows you to mingle with people who promote a positive vibe and constructive thought. Selfishness in a relationship will also allow you to make your own decisions without being worried about what people will say or what they will think. Again, your partner in the relationship has to be understanding enough to understand your decisions because it will be in the interest of both of you not to stand in the way of the other. It is a case of maturity as well.Being selfish also gives you the time and space to do the things you want to do without expecting any criticism from anyone. You handle your own life responsibly and you do not allow anyone to do the handling for you. This gives you an edge over many individuals whom you may share similar status in the society. When you are selfish, you will only focus on what makes you happy. This is perfectly okay and it also means that no one will have the ‘key’ to your happiness. If you want to have fun, you do just that and leave no room for any questions whatsoever.Selfishness also allows you the opportunity to know who you are. As a person, understanding yourself is the key to being comfortable in any society. You hold the key to understanding yourself and no one will ever be responsible for any shortcomings in the quest to do that.