In a relationship, couples are not always happy. There are moments where couples end up hurting each other.
However, some people go to the extreme and keep hurting their partners without even caring. If your man keeps hurting you, the best thing to do before deciding to walk out of his life is to let him know he’s hurting you.
By doing so, he can choose to change his ways or risk losing you.
Here's how to tell your man he's hurting you.
1. Avoid blaming him
When it comes to telling him that he is hurting you, one of the things to keep in mind is that you should not undermine his self-esteem. Therefore, you should avoid blaming and attacking him and instead approach the conversation in a respectful manner.
2. Allow him to ask questions and explain his actions
When you approach him to tell him he's hurt you, make sure that you allow him to ask questions regarding how he’s been treating you and also give him an opportunity to explain himself.
3. Accept your difficult feelings
Accepting how you feel can be one of the hardest things to do. However, you’ll need to accept your feelings first in order for you to communicate them well.