Communication is a very key pillar in any relationship. Subsequently, the success of any relationship is directly pegged on the success of the communication that you have in place.
If they really love, no matter what the situation is, they will do everything within their power to ensure that you are somehow in touch.
When the communication is going down, you do not really need to worry or stress yourself over it. They may be special to you but nothing can be more important than your own life.
You, therefore, need to think very carefully about what move you take in case your special someone just cuts communication out of the blue.
Here is what to do when they cut communication.
1. Don’t assume he is gone
When he is not communicating, he may have done that on purpose or he may also have been compelled to not be able to have any engagement with his tools of communication.
It is 50-50 that any of them happens. You, therefore, do not need to assume that he is gone just because he has not been in touch for only one day or so. Assuming that will almost be suicidal. Look at what you have had together and wait for him to make matters clear.
2. Take no action
Be calm. Give him time to probably reply you back if you send a message and have had no reply in a long period of time. Do not do anything stupid that you will regret for a very long time. If he is not replying or picking your calls, you will obviously be angered.
In anger, you can send any message to him that will obviously be disastrous to what you have tried to build over the years or the period that you have been together.
3. Remember your own value
Be yourself. Try as much as you can to act decently. Do not give him the impression that you can go as far as even leaving him if he does not do things as simple as not replying to a text message.
Show him that you are not that desperate for his attention. It may be difficult to cope with but always remember to remind him to remind him that it does not feel good to have your texts ignored. Let him see that you are more than just someone who will be crying or dying to just have her man talk.
4. Take time before communicating again
Do not send consecutive messages or in large numbers hoping that he is probably not seeing them. It is his phone. If you send one text message even if he is handling so many conversations, he will somehow stumble upon it. Do not worry yourself with ‘where he could have possibly put his phone.’
If he is busy, he will definitely come back to and say that. Do not irritate him with lots of messages every minute just because there is something you wanted to know and he seems to be ignoring it.
5. Make yourself happy, for the time being
Have fun. Life has to go on with or without your man. If he suddenly starts ignoring you, that will not be the end of the world. You will somehow have to accept it and move on. Moving on is much better when you do it early.
It may be painful deep down inside but he should not in any way feel he has achieved something by not talking to you. Show him that you are fine with and without him.
Reach out to your friends and even have time together and even hang out. He should know that you are defined by more than just his attention.
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