In the quest to find a partner you trust, your heart may lead you to many different directions.
One of those directions could be that you fall in love with someone who has children from a previous relationship.
They may have been divorced or just got the children out of wedlock.
This kind of people want to be loved differently, and also love differently, because they have possibly been through many struggles already.
It may be unknown to many what it means to love someone with kids. Here is the reality:
1. Jealousy towards actual parents of the children
No matter how deep you may love them, it may be impossible, at times, to accept everything as it is.
You will be looking at the children play or become mischievous in the home and be like, "well, someone else other than me is responsible for their existence."
You may succeed in keeping it in, but it will inevitably pop up in some way.
2. Their children may dislike you
If you are in love or in a relationship with someone who has children from a previous relationship, the children may refuse to tolerate your presence.
It happens, especially if they are well grown and know who their birth parent is.
They may even suggest on seeing them and then be nostalgic about some long gone piece of happiness.
3. The fear of hurting them
Just because they needed a lot of convincing before accepting to be with you, you will always have that mild fear of hurting them all over again after they were heartbroken earlier on.
You would be careful, and it may at times be unbearable especially if they make a lot of mistakes.
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