Even though no one wishes for a breakup in a relationship, sometimes ending the relationship is the best thing to do.

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Even though there are a number of signs that tell you it is time to break up, deciding to end things with a man you have known for years can be a hard task.

Here are three simple ways to decide whether you should break up with him or give him a second chance.

1. Talk to someone you trust

If you know someone who can keep your secrets, try reaching out to him or her and talk to them about why you want to end the relationship. Sometimes you might be making decisions out of anger but someone you trust can help you cool down before making a final decision.

2. Give yourself a break

Just take a break from your relationship and see how you will handle things when your man is not beside you. Will your life be the same or will it take the wrong turn? You might end up enjoying being away from your partner or suffer due to their absence thus there's a need to weigh both situations.

3. Be selfish for a while

This basically means you need to concatenate on yourself and your wellbeing so that any decision you male is basically based on your personal judgment and not what the society will say or think.