Do you always wonder whether the person you say is your girlfriend could be unfaithful?

Is there a story unfolding in your community? Let Hivisasa know

There are many men who happen to be dating a woman not knowing that he is just a backup boyfriend.

In order for you to recognise your place, and save yourself from being used, here are some of the signs that she is using you as a backup boyfriend:

1. Are they not available on the weekends?

It is always strange if the person you call your girlfriend is always busy all weekend. If this happens, know that she might be seeing the other guy behind your back.

2. Are you always wondering if she’s cheating?

The idea of her cheating must have been triggered by how she behaves when around you.

If you have a feeling that she might be cheating on you, you should try and find out without many confrontations.

3. Do they test you?

Does she put you into test each and every time? Women with secret guys will always put their blind boyfriend to the test to know whether they can be relied on just in case of anything.

4. Does she always seem distracted?

How does she behave while with her? Does she look distracted each and every time?

The reason for her to look that way might be because she is afraid of being seen around with you with someone that knows about her and the other man.

5. Do their behaviours say something else?

Someone’s behaviour can spill it all for you. This is something that you should be keen on and learn from the signs portrayed.