If your relationship is not working out because of one reason or the other, you better call it quits in the best way possible void of pain and embarrassment.
Sobriety comes in handy here. It does not matter how much they could have hurt you; keeping the whole thing as civilized as possible is the way to go.
As such, there are moments and instances in life when you should not make this move which includes:
1. At a funeral
You should never break up with the person you once loved at a funeral. This is a period when they are mourning their loved ones and may really be psychologically and emotionally unstable.
Telling them that you are not going to be in their lives will terrorize them completely and the effect could be devastating. You can at least pretend to care until the mourning period is over.
2. At their birthday
People highly regard birthdays and require that they are showered with a lobe on this occasion. Telling them that you probably do not care will certainly be injurious to their emotional state.
3. On Valentine's Day
Valentine's day is of great importance to the lives of many. Many people will require that they at least feel the love on this great day. Telling the person you previously loved that you do not care anymore will injure their personality and emotions too.
4. Via a message
There are many ways to break up. But the use of a text message should not be one of those ways. Sending a text message that spells the end of a relationship is terrible not only to you as the recipient but to the sender.
The recipients perception of you will be denatured and they may never have any respect whatsoever for you.
5. In public
Breaking up with someone in public does not only make you a jerk and a joke but also says a lot about you emotionally abusive.
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